The thing about us humans is that, we allow negative things like complacency to creep into us like nightfall, making us take things and loved ones around us, more often than not, for granted.
Temptation hits on our minds like propaganda, allowing us to give and fall prey to it, over and over again.
Anyway, this is my first 'clog', and i wanna share something with all of my loved ones in this clique; something which we might all have been guilty of, which causes most of the conflicts.
Promises, defines; (from Merriam-Webster online dictionary)
"1 a : a declaration that one will do or refrain from doing something specified
b : a legally binding declaration that gives the person to whom it is made a right to expect or to claim the performance or forbearance of a specified act
2 : reason to expect something
When a promise is made, it is a declaration made to someone/people and certain actions are expected from the person who has promised something.
I don't know how much a promise holds and means to each individual as we view things differently, but i am confident and sure enough to say that when we are promised something, we expect something, expect the person who promised to fulfill and keep his/her words.
Shit happens in life and we all know it, and when that happens, promises are broken or not fulfilled, thats when we face unforeseen circumstances.
But as far as possible, to not let disappointment, argument and conflicts to come into the picture, i hope we all will take our promises made seriously.
I hope i havent been too much of a nag, just my 2cents worth of thought really.
If you guys care enough, please think through all that i've gotta say, and realise how these small flaws might wreck a big beautiful bond and friendship, even between individuals.
You guys are the angels of my life;
the people i see myself growing old with.
So let's show each other (and not other people),that we're not just all about FUN or a bunch of self-crowning fartheads; but people of our words.
with much love,
no.12
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